Mama me tjera da se udam za nekoga koga ne volim. Ona se brine da neću u budućnosti dobiti momka i upravo zbog toga, nelogično je da se udam za bilo kojeg momka koji naiđe. Imam 25 godina, ali ne sviđa mi se tip kojeg mi pokazuje. Kako da ona shvati da je Allahova volja kada ću se udati. Ali tjeranje u brak nije riješenje, kad mi se ne sviđa. Govori mi da je ja ne volim, da je ne poštujem zbog svega ovoga.
Original pitanje:
QUESTION:
My mom is forcing me to get married to someone I don’t like. She’s worried that I wont get a boy in future and just because of that, it’s illogical to get married to any guy that comes across. I’m 25.But I dont like the guy she’s been showing me. How to make her understand that it’s Allahs will, when he wants I’ll get married. But forcing me into this is not the solution,when I dont like it.She tells me that i dont love her, respect her because of all this.
Nitko vas ne može prisiliti na udaju protiv vaše volje.
Međutim, ne smijete stalno odbijati dobre ponude (praktikanata) braće s ispravnim akiidom, jer vi ne postajete mlađi i imam dosta slučajeva žena koje su odbijale dobre prijedloge i čekale su svog šarmantnog princa i godine su im prošle i sada plaču jer im ponude ne dolaze više.
Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem
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Original odgovor:
Nobody can force you to marry against your wish.
However, you must not keep rejecting good proposals of practicing brothers with correct aqeedah because you are not getting younger and I have many cases of women rejecting good proposals and waited for their prince charming and their age slipped and now they’re crying and no proposals are coming any more.